We love the idea of writing down all of the qualities you are looking for - and releasing it to the universe!
Knowing what you want is a powerful thing, as is making sure your list gets narrowed down to about ten key qualities (Yes, a list of 153 is too long ladies! There's something to be said about having a relaxed, carefree attitude when it comes to dating.
Intuition is like a gift from the universe - so don't ignore the feeling in your gut that tells you something isn't right about the seemingly cool guy you just met.
Keep those eyes open and listen to your inner self.
Maintaining your sense of self, friendships and passions keeps you balanced and also makes you a more desirable partner.Remember, he fell in love with the dynamic “you” who has her own interests and passions, who wanted to make him a part of your life, not the whole darn thing.Men are attracted to confident women who get the concept of “interdependence.” Interdependence requires that you’re both independent and dependent; that means you create a sacred space for your relationship as well as sacred space for your work, passions and friends. While you might think it is cute to have three glasses of wine at dinner, he does not. If you need to loosen up before a date, watch a comedy right before you leave or take a walk. One guy told us that he went on a first date and his date wouldn’t order any food because she wasn’t “hungry.” But then every time he cut a piece of steak on his plate, she reached over and ate it!I know that most of my clients and women I speak to on a regular basis can’t.They are often concerned with a list of qualities and accomplishments that are watered down and often shallow.